How often do you talk to or text with your ex? Mine seems to call me 4 or 5 times a week and it isn't always about our kids, either. He acts like we're still married and it bothers me a little, but I don't say anything to him because I don't want to start an argument or have him be irritated with me. I mean, we still have to talk because of our 2 kids and I don't want that to be overshadowed by the fact that he thinks I am rude because I won't let him call me or text me about his day, his job or just random frustrations.
I think that you should talk to your ex only about your joint kids, but as I already wrote above, I let anything go. You should allow whatever communication that you feel comfortable with and just go about your life.
I think it will be easier for me to tell him to back off once he is visiting my kids at a hotel or at his own place if he ever moves into one. That way I won't see him once a month at my house, so there will be less chance of an awkward encounter.
For now I am making dinner and then going to bed. I work at 4:30 am tomorrow.
Night!!
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